For those of you who don’t know, we are now in the month of Ramadhan, a month which is celebrated by all Muslims around the world. People commonly know it as the month where we fast from sunrise to sunset, refraining from food/drink (no, not even water), but also from things like swearing, losing our patience and arguing. For Muslims though, it is a lot more than that.
(There’s a wonderful article “9 questions about the Muslim holy month you were too embarrassed to ask” addressing some common questions people have about the month so I won’t really go into any of that).
The month of Ramadhan contains Laylatul Qadr (The Night of Power), when the Holy Quran was revealed. It is thought that this is the night when our fate for the next year is decided, and any act of prayer or worship during this night is equal to that of a thousand. Shi’a Muslims also commemorate the martyrdom of Ali ibn Abi Talib (peace be upon him) – the cousin and son-in-law of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) – on the 19th and 21st nights of Ramadhan, engaging in special prayers and supplications to God. So even more than the month of fasting, Ramadhan is the month of the Quran. We are encouraged to turn to the Holy Book, read it, study it and try to understand it, to gain closeness to God.
While the physical act of fasting is that which raises the most discussion, Ramadhan is more about spirituality for Muslims. As I mentioned, we do not just refrain from food and drink, but also from more social things. Now some people (not gonna lie, myself included sometimes) try to sleep in for as long as possible, to avoid an unpleasant feeling of hunger or tiredness, but this is actually something we are strongly encouraged to not do. Fasting is about detachment from the material world around us, including laziness, giving us more space in our hearts to worship, gain closeness to and serve God. Many Muslims do this by trying to give more away to charity in the month, or volunteer to help others. Basically, if you need anything, ask your Muslim friend in the month of Ramadhan and they’ll almost definitely try to help (as long as you don’t try to push your luck by asking for a car or something).
I think the major struggle with Ramadhan this year is going to be COVID-19 (just like it is with everything else, love that). See, one of the biggest and most loved parts of this month is the community spirit. We gather together in our mosques or homes for collective prayers and supplications – we read the Holy Quran together, say our prayers together, we eat together, mourn and celebrate together. We learn from and encourage each other to gain the most we can. At the end of the month, we celebrate Eid ul Fitr (the Festival of Breaking the Fast) with our families and friends, enjoying the fact that we can drink coffee (or tea – I don’t know if it’s just my community but I swear Muslims go mad over tea) and have breakfast in the morning again.
Engaging in this month amidst a global pandemic is going to be a challenge to say the least. I’m not going to lie and say the physical act of fasting is easy because it isn’t, but I am truly excited and ready to try to make the most out of such a beautiful month even without the physical presence of people that I love. I’ll try to keep you posted.
“O you who believe! Fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may observe self-restraint (al-Taqwa)” Holy Quran, 2:183.